So my husband is the youth intern at our church this summer and job number one for him (and me) was chaperoning the annual Jr. High six flags trip. There were 9 girls, 9 boys, and 6 adults to keep them under control. (Yes, you can laugh now) All the kids were between the ages of twelve and fifteen. This was a great group. We didn't really have any "trouble children" and they were young enough that, although they were starting to like the opposite sex, most weren't confident enough to do anything about it.
The plan was for all of us to load up into two church vans and drive almost seven hours to Arlington TX on Monday. Monday night we would go to the mall, Tuesday we would spend the day at Six Flags Over Texas, and Wednesday we would go to a nearby water park called NH2O and then drive back home. I knew it was going to be a little crazy but felt up to the task.
When Chris and I arrived at the church at 8 on Monday morning, we discovered that the kids had naturally formed a girls' van and a guys' van. The girls' van also had three adults: a married couple who had a daughter on the trip and a lady who was there with her son and daughter. This arrangement meant that my husband and I would be riding with the youth minister in the guys' van. Not bad, right?
The trip down was uneventful. No major mishaps or out of control boys. (Praise the Lord for that because Jr. High is not the age group with which I feel most comfortable) Once we got to Arlington, we ate supper and went to the mall where, much to Chris' dismay, we spent the next three hours. The girls spent a lot of time shopping (one girl even claimed she got a good deal on everything she bought through sales) and the guys spent a lot of time ice skating (I was jealous) or spending big bucks on personalized baseball hats. We went home and still had enough time to swim. That was were I met Lacey.
Lacey is a young girl with special needs and quite possibly the sweetest, most kind-hearted girl I have ever met. I was in the pool swimming/baby sitting when all of a sudden I hear, "Hey! Hey!" I looked around and saw a blonde that I knew was with us but I hadn't met. I knew her name was Lacey but didn't know anything else. "Come here," she ordered me. As soon as I was close she grabbed my name and started talking and playing with me. It was immediately clear that she wasn't as far along developmentally as the other students but that didn't stop her from trying everything that they did. Throughout the trip, she was a joy. She always seemed to have a few people that she would latch onto. Some of the girls on the trip knew her from school and knew she wasn't like them. She also seemed to really like one of our boys who is a great leader and has a kind spirit. She even brought out the best in some of our kids who tend to be a little rough around the edges.
My favorite part of the whole weekend was watching Lacey interact with the other children. They were very careful with what they said and how they behaved. It was amazing. No one fought around Lacey, much less made fun of her. They took care of her as if she was a little child. They were gentle and helpful and truly made her trip a great one. At one point and time, I looked around the water park as the other kids included Lacey into a game they were playing in the wave pool and thought, "Thank you God that this is the future of your church. These kids have learned what some adults haven't. They have learned what kindness can mean to a person. They learned to put someone else's needs and wants ahead of their own." I hope that this trip will be one of the best memories for Lacey, but more importantly, I hope that our youth group can remember how great it felt to help make those memories for her.
Thursday, May 31, 2012
Friday, May 18, 2012
My Favorite People
This weekend I get to spend time with some of my favorite people in the whole world: my mom and dad. For those of you who didn't know, I kind of have the best parents ever. My mom is a middle school math teacher and my dad works for the Farm Service Agency.
My parents got married almost thirty years ago and are still going strong. They met at West Texas A&M University, the same school were I got my degree. They got married in the chapel on campus. I used to love to go inside the chapel, which was right outside my dorm room, and think about how my whole future began there. My mom and dad are gross. We are talking PDA gross. (that's Public Displays of Affection not Personal Digital Assistant) I have even had other people comment on how "sweet" they are. Don't get me wrong, I am really glad that my parents are in love. They have been a great example for me and my sisters.
I remember one time while I was in high school, my mom and I got into a fight. I don't even remember what we were arguing about. All I remember is I was convinced I was right and she wasn't listening to my side. Normally, my mom and I both prefer to ignore problems rather than deal with conflict. Like I said, I don't remember why this was so different. I had just raised my voice to yell over my mom so that she would have to HEAR me when my dad comes home. He looks from me to my mom back to me and says "Go to your room now." I think I said something like, "But Dad you don't understand." However, I do remember what my dad said and probably will for the rest of my life. He said, "I don't care. In this house, your mom is queen and she will be treated like a queen." At the time, I was furious, but, after I went to my room and pouted, I realized that my dad would always defend my mom. That kind of devotion was astounding to me and I knew that when I looked for a husband I wanted someone who would stand by me like that.
Mom and I are a lot alike. Dad says we are carbon copies but that isn't entirely true. I'm more emotional. Other than that, we are alike. We think alike. It makes us a great team in games like 42. We were both married young and both enjoy teaching and working with kids. We also both know that nothing is better after a hard day than swimming laps in a swimming pool. My mom is my rock. She is brave and confident and always reminds me that everything will be okay and I don't have to be perfect. (Even though I really, REALLY want to be)
If my mom is my rock, my dad is the soft spot I land. He gives the best hugs. Anytime I am with him I'm attached like a little tick. As long as I can remember my favorite spot has been in my daddy's lap. He still holds me anytime I am home. When we were younger, Daddy would take my sisters and me camping, just us and Daddy. He would take us fishing and help us fix supper. I loved making him smile with the way I "fish". (throw the hook out there, put the pole down, go talk to all the other people who were fishing and if the pole moved by the time I got back, I had a fish) I think it probably drove him nuts, but he let me be me.
Needless to say, all you people who thought your parents were the best were wrong. I win and I can't wait to see them tomorrow!!!!! XOXO to all of you!
My parents got married almost thirty years ago and are still going strong. They met at West Texas A&M University, the same school were I got my degree. They got married in the chapel on campus. I used to love to go inside the chapel, which was right outside my dorm room, and think about how my whole future began there. My mom and dad are gross. We are talking PDA gross. (that's Public Displays of Affection not Personal Digital Assistant) I have even had other people comment on how "sweet" they are. Don't get me wrong, I am really glad that my parents are in love. They have been a great example for me and my sisters.
I remember one time while I was in high school, my mom and I got into a fight. I don't even remember what we were arguing about. All I remember is I was convinced I was right and she wasn't listening to my side. Normally, my mom and I both prefer to ignore problems rather than deal with conflict. Like I said, I don't remember why this was so different. I had just raised my voice to yell over my mom so that she would have to HEAR me when my dad comes home. He looks from me to my mom back to me and says "Go to your room now." I think I said something like, "But Dad you don't understand." However, I do remember what my dad said and probably will for the rest of my life. He said, "I don't care. In this house, your mom is queen and she will be treated like a queen." At the time, I was furious, but, after I went to my room and pouted, I realized that my dad would always defend my mom. That kind of devotion was astounding to me and I knew that when I looked for a husband I wanted someone who would stand by me like that.
Mom and I are a lot alike. Dad says we are carbon copies but that isn't entirely true. I'm more emotional. Other than that, we are alike. We think alike. It makes us a great team in games like 42. We were both married young and both enjoy teaching and working with kids. We also both know that nothing is better after a hard day than swimming laps in a swimming pool. My mom is my rock. She is brave and confident and always reminds me that everything will be okay and I don't have to be perfect. (Even though I really, REALLY want to be)
If my mom is my rock, my dad is the soft spot I land. He gives the best hugs. Anytime I am with him I'm attached like a little tick. As long as I can remember my favorite spot has been in my daddy's lap. He still holds me anytime I am home. When we were younger, Daddy would take my sisters and me camping, just us and Daddy. He would take us fishing and help us fix supper. I loved making him smile with the way I "fish". (throw the hook out there, put the pole down, go talk to all the other people who were fishing and if the pole moved by the time I got back, I had a fish) I think it probably drove him nuts, but he let me be me.
Needless to say, all you people who thought your parents were the best were wrong. I win and I can't wait to see them tomorrow!!!!! XOXO to all of you!
Thursday, May 3, 2012
Happy Birthday to Me
Am I the only one who treats their birthday like most people treat New Year's? I spend the whole day thinking about where I am and where I thought I would be when I turned... My conclusion this year? Even though I am super blessed to be where I am, with the people I am with, I am not where I hoped to be.
I have been saying that for as long as I can remember that if I could wake up at any age, I would ant to be married, twenty-one, and pregnant. On my twenty-second birthday, I woke up and realized I would never be twenty-one and pregnant. Some of you reading this may think I'm crazy for focusing on this. After all I am only twenty-two. It is not like I'm an old lady who has missed her opportunity to have babies, but it still kind of hurts. My life is not where I thought it would be. I want to feel a baby move inside me. I want to know that our baby has a piece of me and a piece of my amazing husband. I want to see my parents and my husband's mom as grandparents.
I still have hope. I still think I am suppose to be a mom and I really do believe that my God is all powerful and has the ability and the desire to grant this wish. I meant what I said earlier. I know how truly blessed I am. Not only do I have an amazing family; my husband has an amazing family. My husband loves me and my dogs are super sweet. And, by the way, have you seen my house? It is huge and beautiful and will be our home (God willing) for a long, long time.
So why is it so easy to become Little Miss Mopey? I guess deep inside I am just a little girl throwing a temper tantrum just like when I wanted to keep the kitten I found while riding my bike. I was about seven and had wanted a kitten for my whole life. (not an exaggeration) I was riding my bike and this kitten kept following me in the street. It almost got hit by a car. So I picked it up and brought it home, but my parents wouldn't let me keep it. I threw a fit similar to the one that I throw when I think about how much I want to be pregnant.
I am so grateful for all of the love and support that all of my friends and family have given me. I promise to try to limit my temper tantrums to a minimum. You guys are the best and I am so blessed to have you.
Love, Me
I have been saying that for as long as I can remember that if I could wake up at any age, I would ant to be married, twenty-one, and pregnant. On my twenty-second birthday, I woke up and realized I would never be twenty-one and pregnant. Some of you reading this may think I'm crazy for focusing on this. After all I am only twenty-two. It is not like I'm an old lady who has missed her opportunity to have babies, but it still kind of hurts. My life is not where I thought it would be. I want to feel a baby move inside me. I want to know that our baby has a piece of me and a piece of my amazing husband. I want to see my parents and my husband's mom as grandparents.
I still have hope. I still think I am suppose to be a mom and I really do believe that my God is all powerful and has the ability and the desire to grant this wish. I meant what I said earlier. I know how truly blessed I am. Not only do I have an amazing family; my husband has an amazing family. My husband loves me and my dogs are super sweet. And, by the way, have you seen my house? It is huge and beautiful and will be our home (God willing) for a long, long time.
So why is it so easy to become Little Miss Mopey? I guess deep inside I am just a little girl throwing a temper tantrum just like when I wanted to keep the kitten I found while riding my bike. I was about seven and had wanted a kitten for my whole life. (not an exaggeration) I was riding my bike and this kitten kept following me in the street. It almost got hit by a car. So I picked it up and brought it home, but my parents wouldn't let me keep it. I threw a fit similar to the one that I throw when I think about how much I want to be pregnant.
I am so grateful for all of the love and support that all of my friends and family have given me. I promise to try to limit my temper tantrums to a minimum. You guys are the best and I am so blessed to have you.
Love, Me
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